The year was 1980, Anil was playing cricket with his friends in a park in Punjabi Bagh, New Delhi. His coach, quite impressed with his wicket-keeping, asked his father if Anil could join the state team. But Anil's father wanted him to join the family business, and Anil complied. In those times, what parents said was the last word; your life’s decisions were taken by them…
Thirty years later, Anil’s daughter, Aliya, graduated and
started working. She didn’t face any pressure from her family, nor was there a need for her to work, she chose to do so of her own free will. Like her job, all other aspects of her life, from what to wear, what to eat, where to party were all her choice. Her earnings were spent on eating-out, shopping, recreation etc and little on household expenses or any major investments. Now at 23, responsibilities haven't cast even the slightest shadow on her life. Settling down is a distant probability... She’s supported completely by her parents – be it for food, a roof, or even the extra pocket money. Such is the world of ‘twixters’, people in the age bracket of 18 to 30, who are no more adolescents yet not close to being adults. They are ready to go out and experiment with their lives. Marriage is not on their mind till they reach late-twenties. To adults these youngsters might sound confused, aloof, irresponsible, but perhaps the truth is that they are preparing themselves for the bigger responsibilities and challenges of life.Dr Sanjay Chugh, Senior Consultant Psychiatrist, says, “The youth today is not keen on following trends. They are looking at careers, life partners whom they can relate to. In the pursuit of such goals, there usually is a certain amount of experimentation involved. However, this does not mean that the definition of stability has gone awry. They are clear that stability is when they can take care of their responsibilities in a consistent manner. The youth today is also witnessing a major transition in the value system of the nation. Divorces, extra-marital relationships etc. are becoming increasingly common. The youth may consciously delay entering adulthood because they can see what a mess they might make as an adult.”
But like Aliya, there are several other youngsters who are well into their twenties and are happy postponing ‘settling down’, making many elders accuse them of trying to dodge the responsibilities that come with adulthood. Twenty-five-year-old Kriti Dogra, who is pursuing Masters in Human Development, speaks the mind of the current generation, “I don’t think adulthood is delayed, it’s just that earlier, quarter-life (life between adolescence and adulthood) was mistaken as adulthood. It (adulthood) was always later in life. I think the best age to take on the responsibility of marriage is when one would understand the seriousness of the relationship and when one is clear about their goals in life.”
played a stupendous role in reliving the memories of the Kargil War, a war whose existence the bureaucracy had refused to accept once. Again, it was vindicated why the Indian Army is one of the finest institutions of the country. So, while the debates of the worst kind over the commemoration of the Kargil War continued (some from the political dozen were busy arguing whether it was purely an NDA victory, which therefore excludes the UPA from having the right to celebrate), what has been conveniently forgotten in between is the loss of numerous lives in the summer of ’99. Not only were those lives valuable, but the fact also is that many of those who died were young officers and jawans freshly out of military academies who willingly gave up their lives for a forgetful nation. Also is forgotten the fact that without that victory, the strategic paradigm of India and even the map of India would have changed forever.
story during the recent Lok Sabha elections in Western Uttar Pradesh? It was the sleazy, demeaning and distasteful “visuals” of the Rampur Lok Sabha candidate Jaya Prada. Dozens of mesmerised and possibly unhinged men try their best to seek their 15 minutes of fame when a Madhuri Dixit or a Sridevi or an Aishwarya Rai gets married. But who got more than her unfair share of 15 minutes of fame when Aishwarya Rai got married? It was a nonentity called Jahnavi Kapoor.
pro-poor welfare schemes of the YS Rajasekhar Reddy government in Andhra Pradesh is slowly giving way to some criticism. All those schemes that initially drew public applause are now being questioned for their alleged lack of transparency. There are two lines of question being posed by analysts: One, can the government safely transfer its responsibilities to private parties? Two, what exact measures are being taken to ensure that corrupt officials do not end up lining their pockets; especially with vital sectors like health and education at the receiving end?
was whether India had bitten off more than it could chew by alluding that its ‘role’ in fomenting trouble in Balochistan was on the discussion table with Pakistan as part of the composite dialogue process. Some analysts say the joint statement delinking action on terror from the composite dialogue process has come as a bolt from the blue.
chief minister and Shiromani Akali Dal president Sukhbir Singh Badal, from Bathinda. However, she won by a margin of over 1.25 lakh votes, which cannot be attributed to this alleged tacit understanding. It was more the mismanaged Congress campaign that helped her win comfortably. However, Dera activists are now being allowed to hold their congregations in the state, which is being cited as evidence of a tacit understanding. These congregations had stopped following the Akal Takht hukamnama.
chairman of the 125-acre Vedic Village and manager Biplab Biswas. During interrogation Biswas told the police that he had taken part in the violence by owner’s order. And finally the arrest of the dreaded criminal Abdul Hai alias Kalo convinced the cops and authorities of the roles of politicians and local mafia. The cops are looking for Don Gaffar Molla — the kingpin and the man who used to sell lands to the locals. Besides, the police have also recovered huge cache of firearms, bombs, ammunitions and even dozens of police helmets from the construction site of the Vedic Village.
to become a super power, it has to follow certain basic fundamentals. Most importantly, India has to maintain positive relation with the neighbouring countries, irrespective of how less influential and economically viable they are. Most of its neighbours (Bangladesh, Sri Lanka, Nepal and Bhutan, barring Pakistan) consider India as a big brother, but they also hold a strong perception that it is irresponsible too. Some of the gruesome issues between India and its neighbours are illegal immigration, human trafficking, and influx of terror group. Mr. Enamul Hoque Chowdhury, the Press Minister of Bangladesh High Commission to India, believes that though these are inevitable amongst all bordering countries and can’t be stopped completely at a go, issues can be drastically mitigated provided there are adequate measures taken to reduce poverty as poverty is the nucleus of all problems. Moreover, India’s immigration policy doesn’t seem to be very focused and insightful.
citizens across the country. In Orissa, however, government departments are dragging their feet on RTI applications. And in some cases they have even asked the applicants to pay money to get information.
could easily be labelled as an obsession, considering her home is dotted with 200 statues and figurines of the creature, some of which are even crafted out of crystals. Earlier, Barrymore had become friends with about a dozen squirrels, but she is so besotted with these marine mammals that she’s come to believe that she too must have been one of them in her past life! At a holiday in Bahamas, she even swam with the dolphins! Drew has battled addictions before, but this one has got to be the craziest!
in natural law and liberty, Lysander Spooner was one of the most provocative, eclectic and prolific American legal theorists of the 19th century. His writing continues to influence those today interested in consent, natural law, individual rights, and constitutional order in political theory and practice. Following letter to the then president Grover Cleveland is considered to be a masterpiece of legal definition. Look at the way he describes the word ‘Justice’ and the disdain for it that American ruling class has.